We had 3 days in Bali before we fly to Sydney and wanted to experience the cultural side of the island, so picked the inland hotspot of Ubud. Our boat ticket included a transfer to our hotel in Ubud, which to be honest we didn’t really believe. When we arrived at the harbour in Bali loads of people boarded the boat shouting destinations and taking tickets. We had heard loads about the taxi mafia of Bali so decided to keep quiet and wait until we were off the boat to work out how the transfer worked. An Australian lady behind us (who had clearly been here before) said to her son ‘don’t talk to these men, they are pretending to be taxi drivers, we will go to the office’. We got our bags and headed to the offices; our tickets were taken out of our hands a couple of times with people telling us they were out driver. We went to the office and they just pointed to the crowd and said there, that’s your driver. Eventually we found what we hopped was the company’s driver but we couldn’t tell. Chris showed them our hotel and the driver said they only make drop offs in the town, so why they lie about that when they sell the tickets I don’t know. Also we were told it would only be 2 hours but it was a good 4 by the time we got off the bus. but we have come to expect this in Asia. In Ubud they (the taxi mafia, which call themselves the taxi council) have actually banned online taxis and hiked up the prices for the area. I’m all for ensuring local people get the work, but don’t increase the prices unfairly and rip off tourist. We were dropped off near the centre of Ubud and had expected to have to wrestle for our bags off a taxi driver, however, we weren’t hassled at all. We got some lunch at a restaurant with wifi so we could get to the hotel cheaply. When the lady at the restaurant realised we was waiting for a online taxi, she looked so panicked and said it’s better to wait outside. From what we have heard, if the taxi mafia spot an online taxi, they will ask for their ID and if they don’t belong to the council they get angry and aggressive. When we were picked up we asked the Go Jek driver (Go Jek is similar to Uber in Indonesia) and he said it was pretty risky for him to accept the job, and he was lucky no one had noticed. We arrived at our hotel where we would be staying the next three nights and so pleased we had booked to stay out of the town. The front of the hotel overlooked rice terraces and had a great sunset. With the view from our room facing the other way it had a great view of the jungle from a lovely balcony, it was just perfect. Just across the road, actually in the rice field was a cute little warung (local eatery) called Raditya Café, we headed straight there for a couple of drinks to watch the sunset.
Day 1: Exploring Ubud
We decided to hire a driver for the day and explore the cultural side of Ubud and the popular sites; Maureen who we had met on the Flores boat trip recommended Gusti to us. It cost 500,000 (about £28) to hire Gusti for the day and we asked him to take us to local points of interest. Bali is the island most people visit when they come to Indonesia and is more westernised because of that. You could really tell this when we arrived at our first stop, the Tegalalang rice terraces, as it was so commercialised. It was as if they only still grew rice there because it brought in tourists and the main focus was the swings, shops and overpriced cafes with views. We did a bit of a hike up and around the terraces and soon realised if we followed any of the signs it was actually leading us to a café or swing, so we soon ignored them and had a little explore. It was lovely to see, but a little disappointing to see so much commercialisation, when you just want to see the beautiful nature. Next we went to do some coffee sampling in a coffee plantation, this was basically just a café with one coffee tree, a staged coffee roasting method and the lemaks in big cages (the lemak poo coffee in Bali is the most expensive coffee in the world). First thing we were asked is if we wanted to go on the swing, we were soon told that we couldn’t take a picture in the birds nest if we didn’t pay for the swing (a human sized birds nest, whatever next!). We had our coffee samples and again we were expecting to taste the coffee at different roasting stages and different types of local coffee, but it was actually just powered flavoured coffee and different teas. We did try the lemak coffee which was ok but we have had better. We visited a couple of lovely temples the Goa Gajah (known as the elephant cave) and also the Pura Desa Batuan. It was lovely walking around these temples, I feel like we have seen all the temples in Asia on our trip but Bali temples are so unique as they are puri hindu, something we hadn’t seen anywhere else. You have to wear sarongs in the temples (which Chris is more than happy to wear), a popular photo is to stand in the middle of the gates. Something we have seen online and actually saw whilst we were at the elephant cave, is people using the black shiny surface on a phone just under the camera to give the illusion of water and reflection. We also saw dress rental for that perfect Instagram photo on the many swings, as well as full on Instagram tours! Now I’m all for a good photo, but to travel to perfect spots and not experience them… this fake’stagram is really scary.





We also visited the powerful waterfall of Air Terjun Tegununagan and for lunch tried the local dish of babi guling which is suckling pig. Don’t get me wrong we had a really lovely day but it is such a shame that these beautiful places are actually being adapted for the Instagram crowd and losing their natural charm.

We had dinner in our new little local on the rice field and watched the sunset again, back to our happy place, and the true country side of Ubud.
Day 2: Jewellery making Workshop & Proposal
I’d seen a jewellery making workshop advertised on Gili Air and thought it would be a lovely thing to do but we were on the wrong island, but found out we could do it in Ubud and got Chris to organise. Chris didn’t really fancy making any jewellery for himself, but was still up for doing the class, which was clearly awesome for me as I get two pieces of handmade jewellery. I had a little look on Pinterest at ideas and set on making a ring. A lot of people by the look of reviews make rings so I didn’t think anything of it when Chris decided to make a ring too.
First I’ll tell you all about the ring I made, I decided on a vine style ring, and was given a piece of paper to draw the leaves on. I needed 10 for my design, drawing 10 tiny leaves is a lot harder then it sounds. These were then glued to a piece of silver and I was given a hacksaw to cut them out, I went through 3 blades it was a long process. I then realised they were too big really so had to file them down it took me a good 2 hours to get to this point! Next I was given a silver rod which was fired to strengthen and then hammered to make straight. I had to taper both the ends… aghhh more filing! My shoulders were killing me! I then used a machine to sand off the rough edges and then polish it up. Next Harris the super helper soldered all of the leaves on for me. Next I had to sand it all down on the machine again and polish it, I knocked off one of the leaves so back to the solder and again the sander. Finally, I bent it into position and polished it all up. I’m so happy with the finished design. Chris had finished ages before me and had popped the ring in a little bag. We were both so chuffed with our work and had a great time at the workshop I would totally recommend it to anyone.





After the workshop we went to a cute little coffee shop Victoria & Andrea had recommended to us (our friends we met in Sapa, Vietnam), we had some amazing local coffee and delicious cakes. I hadn’t actually tried on the ring Chris made me or really seen it finished so I asked for it and just kept it on after (on the right hand index finger the one he had measured up in the workshop). We had a little explore around Ubud town and then took the ridge walk (a 4km scenic walk) back to our hotel. We decided to get some drinks at our rice field local ready to watch the sunset again. When Chris asked to look at the rings we had made and took them both off.
I’ll let Chris tell you about his ring…
I decided on a fairly simple design, as I wanted it to be suitable for an engagement ring and not too tricky to make. I sized it up on Lisa’s right hand which I thought might be a giveaway, but she didn’t seem to think much of it. First I made the heart; this involved twisting a loop of silver wire together using a hand-drill and a vice. I then had to twist it into a heart-shape I’d traced using some small pliers. Our teacher soldered it for me, I then had to file it down so it was nice and smooth. For the ring itself I had a strip of silver which I’d cut to the length needed for Lisa’s finger. I then had to bend it around a tapered rod, hammering it into a perfect circle and closing the gap. He then soldered it together for me, and I spent some time filing, sanding and polishing until it was nice and smooth. Once the heart had been soldered on I then rubbed it with a wire brush, and then more polishing until it was super shiny. I was actually quite impressed with the finished product, it was way better than anything I thought I’d have been able to make!





My plan was to propose in front of the rice terraces, but when we stopped for a coffee on the way she asked to take a look at it. I was hoping she’d give me it back, but no, she just plonked it straight on her finger! From town we took the ridge walk back to the hotel which is where I’d planned on proposing, but it wasn’t really what I expected and there was loads of people so I thought I’d wait until the rice fields near our hotel. When we got close I saw the cafe garden was totally empty, and it was the perfect location surrounded by rice fields. We sat down and I asked to look at both rings (just so she didn’t get suspicious), and then inspected them for am extremely long time while I built up the courage to ask. I said I’d actually made the ring for her other hand and asked her to marry me, Lisa then made me get down on one knee to put the ring on haha.
Back to Lisa again…I was so excited to call my Mum and Dad, but because of the time difference had to wait over an hour for Mum to finish work, of course they already knew as Chris had been in contact to ask permission. I had thought this would be a great proposal opportunity for Chris, but I have been thinking that on a regular bases for a good 3 years now haha. So when he asked, of course I said yes. Its just such a romantic way to get engaged and love the fact Chris made the ring. This is already a trip of a lifetime and it has just been made even more special.
We told the rest of our families and friends the good news most of which just thought we were winding them up! We celebrated in true backpacker style with a beer on the balcony, then went out for a lovely candle-lit dinner as a treat from my parents.







Batik workshop
On our last day we decided to have a leisurely breakfast back out our favourite spot on the rice field and then try our hand at Batik painting. All we knew was it is a traditional painting technique they used in Bali but other than that no idea. Now both me and Chris aren’t exactly artists so when we were given the option to trace a design or draw our own, we both opted to trace. The first step was to trace the designs onto thin cloth using pencil. Next we were both given sarongs to wear to protect our clothes as the next stage was to cover the pencil lines with bees wax, we had to use a special tool to draw the wax lines onto the cloth. Next we used paint brushes to paint thicker lines onto our drawing to create shading. The English of the teachers was very basic and a lot of the times I had no idea what they were saying to me, so just tried to go with the flow meaning half the time I didn’t know what I was doing or why haha. After the wax had set, next was to start to colour, they only had primary colours so layering was used to create the different colours, however, it was a little more complex as you had to cover the colours you were already happy with in wax to protect them. It was really hard to see what was happening and what colour things were, but I just said I want this flower to be pink and leaves green and they gave me a pot and brush and I went ahead. After all of this colouring and layering, the material was washed and then boiled to remove the wax to leave white lines underneath. It was good fun but a bit complex and I had no idea what was going on half the time. We grabbed a coffee whilst we waited for these to dry and then headed to the airport, where we are taking an overnight flight to Sydney.







People have honeymoons, minimoons and babymoons, so I figured I would start a trend with engagementmoons. I have declared Australia officially as our engagementmoon.
Lisa & Chris xx

























































































































